Chatur...??

Let me share with you some of secrets to become Chatur....No, I am not saying anything about Chatur Bania...just few words to become smart .. Chatur .... Able, tactful, adroit, deft, astute, judicious and crafty...in shortest period. Please don't reveal too much of your personal information to people you don't know much ... ( exactly what i am doing right now )...Choose your words and timing carefully. ...Right time, right place, right people equals success...but interestingly, there is no wrong time to do the right thing. Always start with a positive comment before giving a negative comment although we know, negative feedback isn't always bad and positive feedback isn't always good. And yes, think before you speak or you write anything.Skill comes from being able to sense accurately what another person is feeling at that moment and yes, reading between the lines makes your job much easier ...before you enact diplomacy and tact there's no harm to guess what level of tact and diplomacy other person has....If you can sense correctly what is really going on in the minds of others...You have become a Chatur...Col Pendyala Pradeep, Anaesthesiologist.